An analysis of the drama of the gifted child by alice miller

Throughout the book I was torn, between wanting to find connections Miller made between the child and myself, and feeling frustrated at Miller for often seeming to use these connections later as ways to make the readers feel victimized.

In Miller gained her doctorate in philosophypsychology and sociology. However, these assertions and assumptions are definitely thought provoking and can inspire new realms of thought- when wanting to disagree instinctually, I had to figure out just why I disagreed.

It was her first critique of psychoanalysis, charging it with being similar to the poisonous pedagogies, which she described in For Your Own Good. Alice Miller has much wisdom and knowledge to share with you — whether you are a mental health professional or a lay person trying to get a better understanding of yourself and why you do the things you do.

Facing Childhood Injuries New York: As such, they dismiss Alice Miller. A Freudian analyst, she described how a child's need for love was often exploited by parents in order to meet the parent's own unmet needs. In fact, the species would have a chance to evolve into something much less traumatized, and much more healthy and beautiful.

I feel she started a psychological revolution into the exploration of the causes and consequences of childhood traumas, and she set the bar several feet higher for the whole psychology field. I found myself strongly identifying and recognizing my own ability to intellectualize events and build resistance to authentic emotional responses.

Miller explains as well how to identify the causes of the unconscious pain that manifests itself later as depression, self-mutilation, primal inadequacy, and loneliness.

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She believed that forgiveness did not resolve hatred, but covered it in a dangerous way in the grown adult: First, I think that if everyone logically followed my prescription and devoted themselves to healing their childhood traumas, a massive groundswell of healing momentum would ensue, and it would NOT take people decades to heal from their childhood traumas.

The book discusses the unconscious wishes of the parent being often unconsciously bestowed on the child, with the child absorbing these wishes and morphing into this different person. She analysed the childhoods of several famous figures in order to prove her point, the best known being Adolf Hitler.

Alice Miller in a Nutshell: A Brief Critique

But the majority of my criticisms of Alice Miller are separate from my criticisms of my parents. Miller pleads for a course of remembrance and recognition on the part of the victim, and for awareness and condemnation of child abuse on the part of society.

Grandiosity is characterised by contempt for others who have not, as a casual example, read as many books or displayed as brilliant intellectual and artistic accomplishments. So, second, if everyone followed my guidelines I believe that healing from childhood traumas would happen much more quickly, and that the species would not go extinct.

The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self

As far as purpose of the book goes, someone who can benefit from understanding why they may be the way they are could really enjoy and gain a lot from the book.

Many adults have protection mechanisms that make them feel better about themselves, and many adults deceive themselves for this same reason. From to the family lived in Berlinwhere nine-year-old Alicija learned the German language.

She later told me that it was only when she started spontaneous painting in the early s that she began to remember the destruction she had witnessed. She came under the influence of a Swiss psychotherapist called J Konrad Stettbacher, who was the only therapist she believed to be on the side of the child.

Cruelty to a "bad child" will make that child into a bad adult and later create a bad world, unless an enlightened witness comes to the rescue. She was the oldest daughter of Gutta and Meylech Englard and had a sister, Irena, who was five years younger.

It is an informal autobiography in which the writer explores her emotional process from painful childhood, through the development of her theories and later insights, told via the display and discussion of 66 of her original paintings, painted in the years With the key shunned by so many for so long - childhood - she opens rusty locks and offers her readers a wealth of unexpected perspectives.

Having been strongly impressed by the book, Miller contacted Mehr in order to get the name of the therapist. In her extensive new preface for this edition, Alice Miller discusses the increasing attention being paid to childhood abuse since the book's original publication.

Miller found an unfamiliar world emerging from her paintings: She further provides a guide to help patients find the right therapist who will always and unconditionally stay on the side of the wounded child. I read an article, which I am unable to remember the author on the relation of homosexuality with narcisism.

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And when she lifts that veil and brushes it aside, the results are astonishing, as is amply demonstrated by her analyses of the works of Nietzsche, Picasso, Kollwicz, Keaton and others.Although it's been a long time since I read The Drama of the Gifted Child, the shock of recognition - of the dynamics of my family, of my role in it, of the roles filled by my siblings, my mother, and especially by my father - became starkly revealed in a way no amount of discussion or dream analysis /5.

Although it's been a long time since I read The Drama of the Gifted Child, the shock of recognition - of the dynamics of my family, of my role in it, of the roles filled by my siblings, my mother, and especially by my father - became starkly revealed in a way no amount of discussion or dream analysis had approached/5.

the drama of the gifted child Sunday December 16, thanks for reading this. i’m M.

The Drama of the Gifted Child : The Search for the True Self, Third Edition

from Israel & i’m 20 years old. I eagerlly read your book a few years ago. it seemed like someone was tellin me exactlly how it feels to be myself. Alice Miller, who has died aged 87, was an influential and controversial figure in the world of psychoanalysis and psychotherapy.

Her first book, The Drama of the Gifted Child (), sold. Drama of The Gifted ChildTuesday August 22, Hello Alice, I recently read your work "Drama of the Gifted Child" upon my sisters reccomendation and was in so.

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